It's the Holidays

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This used to be my favorite time of year.  Key word USED.  In case people didn't know, I HATE being like this.  I would LOVE to be able to go to work, I would LOVE to not have to wear a mask, and I would LOVE to be able to skate with my boys at open skate.  Instead I worry about my kids and family being embarrassed to be seen with me because I have the mask, I feel like a burden, I have to rely on family to help with everything.  I hear people talk when they see me.  I am made to feel dumb when I go get labs drawn, seriously adults being bullies is terrible.  I'm not trying to get ANY sympathy, I just need to vent and want people to know that just because some people "look" different doesn't mean they chose to be like this.  I'm 37 years old with two kids and have to think about disability.  I have always been what I consider to be a hard worker and this truly destroys any pride I had.  Not much is new with my health, not getting any worse, but not getting any better.  Which, I'll take it just because I'm not getting any worse.  So, if you take anything out of this post, be kind.  Please no matter what be kind.  Teach your kids to be kind, and spread kindness through the communities.  🐸🎄  Happy Holidays to everyone!

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